Was A Great Idea

A dear friend of mine gave me this idea to make a list of things that normally don't get cleaned around the house, light fixtures, walls, etc cut them into pieces of paper, fold them up and put them in a jar.  When the kids give attitude or get in trouble have them grab a piece of paper out of the jar. Guess what they get to do, whats on the paper. :)  WELL... that didn't work out cause "someone" was just rude about the whole thing.  Last night was a bust.  I feel like things are just falling apart  (all over again) and there isn't a person that sees what I see.  Think its time to just throw my hands in air.